Sunday, December 25, 2011

Meeting Mr Wrong

Let me begin by wishing all of you a Merry Christmas! Hope you have been successful in spreading some joy all around and that the coming New Year fulfils all your dreams,aspirations and ambitions.
So lately ad midst all the work, I've been busy attending  Christmas parties,weddings..a typical December as I am sure you identify with..I can see a lot of love stories blooming all around me. A lot of new love, you know the variety that gives you shaky knees, butterflies in your tummy, straight out of romantic movies the kind that makes you feel 16 all over again. Whose love stories you may ask? Well, mostly friends, close friends who were looking to find their "Mr Right" and seemed to have found the perfect match to what they were looking for. It's nice isn't it? When someone exactly who you had imagined to be with comes right in front of you and you know he is your "Mr Right". The kind your family will be proud of, the kind that complements you, the ideal partner and the reason it never worked out with anyone else
Seems perfect doesn't it?
But sometimes I can't help but wonder what happens in a situation when you fall in love with Mr Wrong?
 Firstly, who is Mr WRong? Mr Wrong is someone you never in your wildest dreams anticipated you will fall in love with. Someone who does  not match your definition of your ideal match at all. Yet you find yourself deeply attracted to. Your family's worst nightmare. This obviously doesn't mean he is a horrible person. He is great, but the thought of spending  your whole life with him...scary. He is financially dependent so you can forget being the trophy wife if that was your intention. A flirt, so you're never sure if you are indeed who he is attracted to. Someone with views so different from yours that you can't stop analysing as to what is wrong with you that attracts you to these bad boys. Your family will hate Mr Wrong. Your friends will think you need a doctor. But you just cant help but fall in love with him. Inspite all the negatives he will seem to fit in perfectly in your topsy turvy world. He knows when you're having a bad day and knows just how to make it all right in his weird way. He knows your flaws, he listens, guides and ensures you get over your all your fears with so much ease. He is there for you as a friend, a confidant and a guide. You will never know the real him. You can't read Mr Wrongs mind. You will never know if he is actually the person you think him to be or the person your besties have made of him. Yet admist all this chaos and confusion he seems like the only person to look out for in a crowd. What happens if Mr Wrong ends up being your Mr Right?
Sigh! Life would be such a pickle if that happened.

2 comments:

PG said...

Stop watching movies.

Razzdino said...

hahaha! it happens in real life too!